The Accessory Not the Outfit

When you're shopping for the perfect get-up for that event you've been looking forward to never does a Woman buy a ring and then plan her entire outfit around that one piece, same goes with men.

Never should you plan your entire life around a man. Remember, he is merely the accessory to your already planned outfit.

Women who make men their entire life, honestly, lack in self-respect. How can you dedicate your life to a person whom (naturally) has different opinions, tastes, behaviors, habits and acts differently than you.

You begin to become a puppet, not the puppeteer.

When becoming involved in a relationship your companion simply should become a compliment to your already established life. If you don't have that established life how can you have a compliment? You cannot, and it's that simple.

Although people say "You can't have your cake and eat it too", let me tell you how not only am I the baker, but I make sugar-free cake for those who can't handle my spice ;]

That being said, let no one, none-the-less a male tell you that you can't have a fulfilled life and a man be your compliment to it.

Because frankly my dear... no accessory ever makes a fashion show.